Say nothing incriminating to anyone, especially your uncle. One witness can secretly record anything you divulge and then the Judicial Committee can get you.
Try the following if the wolves come looking for you:
"Thank
you for your concerns brothers, but there's nothing private
& personal
which I wish to discuss with anyone
at the moment, but I appreciate your motives and concern. If things
change, I will definitely call you."
Conversation
Stoppers:
1)
"We only want to come and give you encouragement." =
Simply repeat the response above!
2)
"But how can we help you if you won't talk to us?"
= "Everyone has private & personal issues which they can't discuss with others as I'm sure even elders do - I'm no
different!"
3)
Are you refusing
to talk with us? =
"No, I just don't want to discuss things right
now. But it's good to know that I can call you if things
change."
If
they persist with their interrogation, just say 'thanks', and walk
away - immediately! Do not prolong their interrogation. They can't
punish you for ending a conversation!
Repeat
any/all of the above to anyone
who tries to extract information from you, because the Elders will
get someone you trust to try and get the information out of you!